SELF CONFIDENCE

"you are amazing. People love you and respect you. You radiate charisma, charm and grace. You stand out from everyone around you. Talking to you is a privilege. And you deserve the best the world has to offer. It's all there out there, waiting for you"

These sentences were an excerpt from a book. And it triggered my attention. Why? simply because it tackles about how a single person could boost his self confidence in socializing with other people. 


Many people now a days are afraid of socializing to other people personally because of their appearance or maybe they are shy and not used on socializing with strangers or even to their classmates perhaps. 


Try reading those sentences on the top again. What do you think are the things in mind of the one who constructed these sentences? Or, what comes in your mind when you read it?


You can look into these sentences in two ways, either negatively or positively. Let's talk about the negative side of these sentences. Do you think it sounds selfish? Yes, I was thinking it's in a way selfishness. But of course, always bear in mind that if you are trying to analyze and understand something you have to look at it in the negative side and positive side. In that way you will be able to balance if which is which. If what does the writer really want to say. 


Now, getting back to the topic, let's see this one on the positive side. In a way, it may boost your self confidence. Try saying these sentences ten times in front of mirror before going out for a walk. Internalize it. I think it would help a lot. 


Let us always remember that what you believe what you are is what becomes who we are. Believe in your self always. God has made us all different from each other so in a way we would fill up what is missing to other person and vice versa. We all know that nobody is perfect because He created us to be completed with other people because no one can stand alon all by himself.